I was driving this morning dropping some child off for some activity, when I started thinking about friends and others who have been married for a while. Why do some couples make it and others don’t? And what constitutes a good marriage?
What makes a good marriage?
What keeps you going?
Does it get easier?
Is it just a habit?
Now a little about myself~ I am a divorced. I was married 21 years. I was pretty unhappy most of my marriage. I tried hard to please him but he was also very unhappy. And even though divorce has been the right decision for me as far as being a much happier person, I can’t answer that question for him. He doesn’t speak to me at all, even when he sees me in public. We have 2 wonderful daughters together. I am currently living with a man I love very much, but there are commitment issues. I am so interested to figure this out.
I read once that the answer to a long marriage is a poor memory. So over the next few months. I hope to interview or develop some type of survey to find out about marriage. I would greatly appreciate any input, everything would be kept completely anonymous. Message me on Facebook.