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Marriage~ this was written 2 years ago

I was driving this morning dropping some child off for some activity, when I started thinking about friends and others who have been married for a while.  Why do some couples make it and others don’t? And what constitutes a good marriage?

What makes a good marriage?

What keeps you going?

Does it get easier?

Is it just a habit?

Now a little about myself~ I am a divorced.  I was married 21 years.  I was pretty unhappy most of my marriage.  I tried hard to please him but he was also very unhappy.  And even though divorce has been the right decision for me as far as being a much happier person, I  can’t answer that question for him.  He doesn’t speak to me at all, even when he sees me in public.  We have 2 wonderful daughters together.  I am currently living with a man I love very much, but there are commitment issues.  I am so interested to figure this out.

I read once that the answer to a long marriage is a poor memory.  So over the next few months.  I hope to interview or develop some type of survey to find out about marriage.  I would greatly appreciate any input, everything would be kept completely anonymous.  Message me on Facebook.


“A successful m…

“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”
-Mignon McLaughlin

This is quote that hits me the hardest.  Sometimes it is easier than other times.  


“Marriage: Love…

“Marriage: Love is the reason. Lifelong friendship is the gift. Kindness is the cause. Til’ death do us part is the length.” Fawn Weaver